Catching Up
Jun. 9th, 2003 07:53 amI caught up with an "old" friend today, whom I hadn't seen for almost 3 years. I was actually wanting to talk to her about a local cemetery -- I have a part time hobby of photographing cemeteries. I have some samples at Hecate's Grandchildren (my Goth site).
Anyway, it was always a bit odd with this friend. I get the feeling that she likes me, but doesn't want to be seen with me (because I'm transsexual). This is perhaps why I let the friendship lapse a few years ago. The last time I had contact with her was before going overseas for my op.
I think I'll let the friendship lapse again -- I have the information I wanted.
There's no percentage in cultivating a friendship with someone like that -- it only brings down my self esteem. I offered to send her one of my magazines and all she could say was "um, er, well I'll read anything" (!) Hasn't she ever heard of "No, thanks"?
Anyway, it was always a bit odd with this friend. I get the feeling that she likes me, but doesn't want to be seen with me (because I'm transsexual). This is perhaps why I let the friendship lapse a few years ago. The last time I had contact with her was before going overseas for my op.
I think I'll let the friendship lapse again -- I have the information I wanted.
There's no percentage in cultivating a friendship with someone like that -- it only brings down my self esteem. I offered to send her one of my magazines and all she could say was "um, er, well I'll read anything" (!) Hasn't she ever heard of "No, thanks"?