Well, I went to Agender after all, and it was OK. I made it into a bit of an excursion, getting gas for the car, a video (Angel Season 3, vol I) on the way, and some grocery shopping on the way home.
The meeting seemed more open and informal than Neon (another local trans group). I liked it, as it reminded me of Chameleons, which I ran for a few years back in Perth. Even so, I did not feel that well, either driving to or from, or while I was at the meeting. I felt like my heart was ready to burst out of my chest, and my right hand had the "shakes" off and on. What is this?
I really do need to go out tomorrow, and I hope I'll be up to it.